I competed in the Gay Games in Chicago last month (it was the most fun meet I have EVER been to in my 15 years in the sport) and we competed against this wonderful team from San Fransisco. They told us that they were invited to perform an exhibition at FINA World Masters next week at Stanford University, and when FINA got a hold of that information they told them they weren't allowed because there are men on the team. There's a story about it on msn.com: click here
Speaking of FINA Masters, anybody going? My duet partner and I were planning to go earlier in the year, but we just don't have the money :( We're hoping for Sydney in 2008!